I would just like to see a checklist of stuff to buy to do this service on a 2004 Heritage Softail...and a checklist of things to check over.

I don't want to spend 300 bucks for the harley shop to do an oil change and adjust my cables...I can do that myself and save the cash.
Oh yeah...I think your right...I do recall seeing that in the manual.
to the second answer: I've heard that...but then I've heard that it doesn't void the warrentee...

AND ABOUT you sly comment about the mileage...I had two babies in the past two years...worked real close to home...DIDN'T GET OUT MUCH DUE TO HAVING CHILDREN...plus it is an 04 which I BOUGHT in December of 05...so what's your point again about my milage?
oops...I mean december of 04...Dealer had 05 already out and 06's would be on the way in 6 months...so I got a great deal...
Good answer Bennett...I just don't see the point in having HD shop do the work when I am perfectly capable of doing this myself...I used to do all my own work on my sportster...but of course that bike did not have a warrentee...